Advice to introduce wife to l and c?

[billknight]

Happy to be a part of this forum, even though I am a junior member.

My wife is about half my size (I'm a fairly muscular 220lbs). One time I briefly had a piggyback from her in a swimming pool but that was it. The only other experience was sitting between her legs on a bed (perpendicular). The big issue with her is that she really detests any sort of sub type behavior, and I'm honestly not into that either. However, a brief piggyback and (ultimate bliss) some form of lapsitting or cradle is something that would send me to the moon. Any of you guys in the same boat? Is a lap sit nearly as good as a cradle or do you find the sensation of being lifted is what really works? I haven't had the pleasure in real life and I'm not sure how she would react to me bringing it up. Any feedback would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.